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LQS Complaints--Other shoe; same foot.
I so agree with that Butterfly.
I always tell the family, if it is warranted. One day, I told a young mother and her two little children (perhaps 5 and 3?) how beautifully behaved they had been, including when she had to go and get more tissues/milk or something. She almost cried, and told me her husband had recently left her; she was over a hundred miles from her family home; and she was trying to bring them up well on her own. I was so *very* pleased I had been at the table next to hers. .. In message , Butterflywings writes snipped Butterfly (who is NOT afraid to tell the parents that their child(ren) are well mannered in front of that child(ren) -- Best Regards pat on the hill |
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LQS Complaints--Other shoe; same foot.
Irrational Number wrote:
joan8904 in Bellevue Nebraska wrote: *Bringing unruly children into the store and letting them roam, crawl, yell, etc. If I may interject... is it so bad to bring unruly children into a store? I mean, does the fact that children roam, crawl, and yell make them unruly? I do not mean to be facetious (or maybe I am just being defensive), but we often go to our LQS as a whole family. DH sits on the floor and tries to keep the two kids under control. But, kids crawl and roam. Sometimes they yell. We do not permit them to touch the fabric, walls, displays, anything. You bring your DH to watch the kids while you are shopping. I think that's wonderful. What bothers me is the mom who brings the kids in, makes no attempt to restrain or correct the children, and she continues to shop and pays them no attention. Meanwhile, they are roaming, touching, yelling, running, and pestering everyone else in the store. Inevitably, they start in on the "MOMMY!MOMMY!MOMMY!MOMMY!" which gets louder and louder, until she gives an exasperated "What?" I have watched a kid remove the bells from the front door and run all over the store with them, knock over a couple of displays, and rearrange the thread case, while mom obliviously shopped. -georg |
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Now cell/mobile phones LQS Complaints--Other shoe; same foot.
oh yes! I hate that too - I complain about "noisy" computers and people just
look at me as if I'm insane sadly a TV doesn't come with a degauss button like computers do -- Jessamy In The Netherlands Take out: so much quilting to reply. Time to accept, time to grow, time to take things slow www.geocities.com/jess_ayad http://uk.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/jes...pson/my_photos ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I'm 49 and I've always heard that... And the buzz behind the noise on a TV and many other electrical appliances. I am also very sensitive to flicker on TY screens and monitors. -- Kate XXXXXX R.C.T.Q Madame Chef des Trolls Lady Catherine, Wardrobe Mistress of the Chocolate Buttons http://www.katedicey.co.uk Click on Kate's Pages and explore! |
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LQS Complaints--Other shoe; same foot.
But what was the repercussions if you DID misbehave? Little ones that
are too small to be left in the car but are misbehaving and crying and annoying everyone...what did your parents do with that child? I always hear the stories of "Oh, we didn't dare!" but I never hear of what the parents would do for punishment. My DD is 2, and although most of the time she behaves fairly well, there are times where I just want to shove a sock in her mouth! I do remove her from the store so as not to annoy other shoppers, and I do try everything I can order to assure a nice quiet shopping trip. When I go to the smaller LQS's, I try to bring DH or go while DD is home with DH. I have had to take her, and trust me, even though my stroller is one of those major huge ones, I try to go when I know it is not going to be busy, and anyone that gets near me I automatically tell them to just let me know if I am in their way and I will move. Without the stroller, however, I am afraid that DD would get frustrated and start wandering and causing issues. Dannielle Butterflywings wrote: My Mother would take ALL 8 of us shopping with her...our hands were IN OUR POCKETS or we sat in the car if we didn't(sometimes dad was there waiting with us, sometimes we were on our own) until she was done. Period....end of discussion. We learned at an EARLY AGE that yelling, running, touching was NOT ALLOWED. No way No how or we stayed home the next time and the ONLY THING we got was to partake in the groceries. How mom remembered which one(s) of us stayed home was beyond me as she went shopping every other weekend. Children were SEEN and NOT heard. ONE look from Mom or Dad was enuf to stop us right then and there. Greatest compliment we received was from shopkeepers/clerks that asked to wait on us---even called one fella, Uncle Milt--(shoe salesman) Had one store where the owner would give EACH of us a candy bar just before we left---you better believe we were beyond angels in his store and he sold everything from tractors to groceries. When we got older, we stayed home to do 'chores' (usually staying with the baby, too) and dad worked in the fields and would come in at lunchtime and 'help' us make lunch--we did it--he made sure we didn't get hurt. (He taught me how to peel potatoes with a paring knife and to this day I can't use a peeler on them : ) Children WILL learn if they are taught proper manners starting at an early age. Butterfly (who is NOT afraid to tell the parents that their child(ren) are well mannered in front of that child(ren) "Cats" wrote in message ... My mother was not a quilter, but was a sewer. I can remember being taken into innumerable fabric stores, and knowing from a very early age that I was to wait quietly for my mother to complete her shopping - no touching, no running, no yelling. My younger sister and I always accompanied her when she shopped. I don't think it hurt either of us to learn the appropriate standard of behaviour for public places at a very early age. And the shop keepers were NEVER expected to provide entertainment or supervision for us. We loved going around with her, and while good behaviour was expected we usually got an icecream or similar for being good. I sometimes have sewers come here with grandchildren in tow. Once in a while this is unavoidable (family drama, etc) but I politely discourage this as a regular thing because this is not an area set up for children and I cannot be responsible for their safety around sharp and pointy things. The OH&S/liability issues for adults are bad enough. Everything in life should not be geared around the possible effects of an uncontrolled toddler/child. Sorry if this makes me a grouch but I don't feel that shops should have to provide a child entertainment area in order to stay in business, and I don't enjoy having to fight the HUGE strollers in use today in narrow aisles when I am shopping. I have enough mobility issues of my own. Off my soap box and off to have a morning cuppa with Oscar the Grouch LOL -- Cheryl & the Cats _ _ _ _ _ _ ( Y ) ( Y ) ( Y ) ~ ~ ~ Enness Boofhead Donut Now in hibernation with a wake-up call for Spring! http://community.webshots.com/user/witchofthewest catsatararatATyahooDOTcomDOTau "Irrational Number" wrote in message nk.net... : joan8904 in Bellevue Nebraska wrote: : : *Bringing unruly children into the store and letting them roam, crawl, : yell, etc. : : If I may interject... is it so bad to bring : unruly children into a store? I mean, does : the fact that children roam, crawl, and yell : make them unruly? I do not mean to be : facetious (or maybe I am just being defensive), : but we often go to our LQS as a whole family. : DH sits on the floor and tries to keep the two : kids under control. But, kids crawl and roam. : Sometimes they yell. We do not permit them to : touch the fabric, walls, displays, anything. : : If we could not bring children in, then I'm : relegated to only ordering fabric online. Or : DH has to stay outside with the kids, and that's : not always the best place to be. : : Obviously, there ought to be some standard for : basic politeness, such as regarding cell phones, : making outrageous return demands, etc. However, : isn't there any room so that children, while : being children, would still be allowed to go : into a little store without raising eyebrows? : : -- Anita -- |
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LQS Complaints--Other shoe; same foot.
Children who roam, crawl and yell *are* unruly. It's not unreasonable to
expect children to be taught consideration for others at an early age, and that includes understanding where that sort of behavior is and is not acceptable. I know I had it easier as a parent by having just one child, but even so, I had been known for taking a cart with several items in it to a clerk and telling her I'm sorry, but I have to go, and dragging my 'unruly' 2-year-old child out of there. She soon learned how to behave, because she loved to go shopping with me, and hated it when I cut the trip short because she didn't behave. I only had to do it twice. She is now 25 and extremely polite and well-mannered, and complains about other people's unruly children. Just like her mom. If one wants to let 'children be children', one should do it in their own house, or backyard, or a playground, where that sort of behavior is acceptable. If you haven't bothered to teach your children how to behave in restaurants and stores, then don't take them until you have. I got bonked on the head with a spoon wielded by a 3-year-old in a restaurant last week. I didn't even get an apology from her parents, so this is absolutely a sore subject with me. -- Valerie in FL My quilts: http://community.webshots.com/user/vjkahler "Irrational Number" wrote in message nk.net... joan8904 in Bellevue Nebraska wrote: *Bringing unruly children into the store and letting them roam, crawl, yell, etc. If I may interject... is it so bad to bring unruly children into a store? I mean, does the fact that children roam, crawl, and yell make them unruly? I do not mean to be facetious (or maybe I am just being defensive), but we often go to our LQS as a whole family. DH sits on the floor and tries to keep the two kids under control. But, kids crawl and roam. Sometimes they yell. We do not permit them to touch the fabric, walls, displays, anything. If we could not bring children in, then I'm relegated to only ordering fabric online. Or DH has to stay outside with the kids, and that's not always the best place to be. Obviously, there ought to be some standard for basic politeness, such as regarding cell phones, making outrageous return demands, etc. However, isn't there any room so that children, while being children, would still be allowed to go into a little store without raising eyebrows? -- Anita -- |
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Dannielle wrote:
But what was the repercussions if you DID misbehave? Little ones that are too small to be left in the car but are misbehaving and crying and annoying everyone...what did your parents do with that child? I got a thump on my butt right in front of everyone. How embarrassing- which was worse than painful. The stern voice was usually enough to keep me in line. One time, when my niece was about 3, I caught her trying to steal a candy from the store. She thought I and her nana weren't watching, opened the jar, and stuck her hand in. I asked her if that was hers. She just broke into to tears. We had a chat about how it wasn't hers, so she wasn't allowed to touch without permission. This she was able to understand. I also told her to ask me or nana (or other attending adult) if she really wanted it, and maybe we might get one for her. Whereupon she asked for it, and I got her one. Usually, she was very well behaved. It's a matter of paying attention to the child enough to correct inappropriate behavior instead of letting it continue, and acknowledging that if the child is too tired, it's time to go home. Insert caveat here about how I've only helped to raise a small child, not actually raised small child myself. -georg |
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Ok, here's what I did. My kids are well-behaved most times, but they are
kids.... I have a *voice* I use on them... if they get told not to do something in that voice, they know that a punishment will follow at home - usually no TV or staying in their room. If they really can't control themselves, we go home. Yes, I've left lots of stores with errands undone over the years. Part of the trick of good behavior is timing. Make sure they aren't needing a nap, or are too hungry. Errands were almost always preceded by a "car snack" like a granola bar, or cereal in a bag, and a drink (usually water - easiest to clean up!). Then, when we get there, a wipe-down with the wipes I keep in the car before they go in the store. Nothing worries a shop keeper more than seeing chocolate-covered ragamuffins come in! When they are little, you just have to keep it quick, and not expect them to be able to power shop. It's a pain, especially with more than one child. When we are finished in the store, I make sure I tell them how pleased I was that they behaved nicely. When they cooperate, it makes the errands go faster, and I really appreciate that. I also try to do a "fun" errand after a dull one. Fortunately, my kids all thought the LQS was a "fun" errand! But sometimes it was just lunch out, and they got to pick where. Just remember, any woman who gives you a dirty look when your kids act up either didn't have any herself, or can't remember that kids have meltdowns. -- Wendy http://griffinsflight.com/Quilting/quilt1.htm De-STUFF email address to reply "Dannielle" wrote in message oups.com... But what was the repercussions if you DID misbehave? Little ones that are too small to be left in the car but are misbehaving and crying and annoying everyone...what did your parents do with that child? I always hear the stories of "Oh, we didn't dare!" but I never hear of what the parents would do for punishment. My DD is 2, and although most of the time she behaves fairly well, there are times where I just want to shove a sock in her mouth! I do remove her from the store so as not to annoy other shoppers, and I do try everything I can order to assure a nice quiet shopping trip. When I go to the smaller LQS's, I try to bring DH or go while DD is home with DH. I have had to take her, and trust me, even though my stroller is one of those major huge ones, I try to go when I know it is not going to be busy, and anyone that gets near me I automatically tell them to just let me know if I am in their way and I will move. Without the stroller, however, I am afraid that DD would get frustrated and start wandering and causing issues. Dannielle |
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Now cell/mobile phones LQS Complaints--Other shoe; same foot.
Clicked link, then clicked link to "hear it" ARGH!!!!!!!!!!! That's
actually in the range that can give me an instant headache....but, even with the speakers turned up, neither child heard it...lol. Oh well.....At least I know I'm not imagining things when I hear that noise! Larisa Sandy Ellison wrote: Howdy! My Avon lady (good friend) told me about this, Monday, a ring tone that we "older" folks aren't supposed to be able to hear. http://tinyurl.com/juf9l I can hear it. Some dept. stores still have electronic equipment running that I can hear buzzing/whining above my head. Ooooerrrrgh! Meanwhile, I appreciate having my mobile phone available, for *my* use. Not in a check-out line, not in a meeting, not at the table in a restaurant, not while I'm driving. I mean, if I drove and phoned, how could I, with a clear conscience, yell at other drivers? : "Hang up and drive! It's an automobile, not a phone booth on wheels!" G It was a joy to have that phone with me in Paducah last year; called dear husband back at work in Dallas, exclaiming over the charm & beauty of that old downtown area. He shared my excitement and looks forward to going to Paducah with me later this year. Ragmop/Sandy --my Avon lady & I are thinking of inventing a "detector" that will sniff out those whining cell phone tones g On 6/14/06 2:22 PM, in article .com, "desert quilter" wrote: Seems about half the complaints center around cell phones. And then people wonder why various school districts have banned cell phones in schools. Adults can't even control themselves with the pesky things. How well do you think a teenager is going to do? Michelle in NV |
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LOL - well the only knickers in my cupboard are mine.
But my spare room does have a couple of changes of clothes for unexpected guests. Just track suits though. I think it's my background in Logistics - we trained to anticipate every need ROFL. -- Cheryl & the Cats _ _ _ _ _ _ ( Y ) ( Y ) ( Y ) ~ ~ ~ Enness Boofhead Donut Now in hibernation with a wake-up call for Spring! http://community.webshots.com/user/witchofthewest catsatararatATyahooDOTcomDOTau "Patti" wrote in message ... : Cheryl, you're amazing! : Like my friend who was a primary school teacher (reception class) who : had several spare pairs of knickers in her cupboard!) : . : In message , Cats : writes : snipped : : I now keep magnifying glasses in four strengths for those : who forget their glasses, 'cos I am sick of watching the : awful results when they persist and can't see properly. : : : -- : Best Regards : pat on the hill |
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Now cell/mobile phones LQS Complaints--Other shoe; same foot.
I've got you beat Kate. I hear those too...and I'm almost 54. I also heard
the ring tone,but had to turn the speakers up a bit. KJ "Kate Dicey" wrote in message ... Jessamy wrote: I can hear that - but then I'm "only" 36 and can hear the buzzing sound almost spent light bulbs give I'm 49 and I've always heard that... And the buzz behind the noise on a TV and many other electrical appliances. I am also very sensitive to flicker on TY screens and monitors. -- Kate XXXXXX R.C.T.Q Madame Chef des Trolls Lady Catherine, Wardrobe Mistress of the Chocolate Buttons http://www.katedicey.co.uk Click on Kate's Pages and explore! |
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