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Cheryl Isaak wrote:
And, in my eyes, it was akin to statutory rape. How old was Monica - 25 at most? The most powerful man in the world wants her? She didn't have a chance. How could she not, she might have lost the job. It strikes me as no different than a boss insisting his secretary service him at lunch time. Ummmm, statutory rape is (with few exceptions) forced sex by an adult with a minor (someone under the age of 18). One can argue the merits of whether or not the age of majority is properly set. I think it should go back to 21. Still well below the age of 25 when the brain has finished cementing the judgment area. I was in a position of the big boys wanting the lowly girl. I managed to keep my job, get promoted, and deal with the situation deftly without ever having to consent. Lewinsky may have been flattered into the relationship. Of that I won't bury my head in the sand. But life has lessons to learn, and she learned a big one. Nothing has changed much since I was young - contrary to popular myth. The affair was not an impeachable offense. The lie was what hung him and cost the taxpayers needless time, energy, and money - at the end of his presidency. Some will feel it was worth it, others will feel differently. That being understood, what are we going to do with the current bunch of liars? You can't have it both ways. Dianne |
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In my history book, we had the history; we had to make up the lists ourselves LOLOL kathy san antonio |
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"Cheryl Isaak" wrote in message ... I didn't mind the lies about sex. I really minded him taking advantage of a young girl and his abuse of power. If the president or CEO of major corporation talked an intern in to the same act(s), said officer would have been fired, lost his pension and the respect of most people. Cheryl He definitely did the wrong thing, and he did take advantage of a young woman, and he definitely did the wrong thing in lying about it, but does anyone but me remember that before she went to Washington to work as an intern she told her boyfriend in California that she was going to see if she could hook the President into a blow job and put another notch in her belt? Lucille |
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On 6/22/04 4:02 PM, in article , "Dianne
Lewandowski" wrote: Cheryl Isaak wrote: And, in my eyes, it was akin to statutory rape. How old was Monica - 25 at most? The most powerful man in the world wants her? She didn't have a chance. How could she not, she might have lost the job. It strikes me as no different than a boss insisting his secretary service him at lunch time. Ummmm, statutory rape is (with few exceptions) forced sex by an adult with a minor (someone under the age of 18). One can argue the merits of whether or not the age of majority is properly set. I think it should go back to 21. Still well below the age of 25 when the brain has finished cementing the judgment area. Statutory rape is defined as sex, even consensual sex, with an under aged (15 in MA, 16 in NH, don't know about other states) minor. A minor can be charged with statutory rape of a younger minor. And no - according to several recent studies, as late as 25 the brain is still maturing. http://tinyurl.com/2gg5w This one talks mainly about teens but there are others that show that changes in the decision making areas are still changing as late as 25. I was in a position of the big boys wanting the lowly girl. I managed to keep my job, get promoted, and deal with the situation deftly without ever having to consent. Many have dealt with it - you're not alone. Everyone handles it differently. BUT lots of men and I include Clinton in this, use the act of sex as a power trip. This makes it a "rape" in my book. Lewinsky may have been flattered into the relationship. Of that I won't bury my head in the sand. But life has lessons to learn, and she learned a big one. Nothing has changed much since I was young - contrary to popular myth. I think of her as a smart girl book wise and naïve in the extreme otherwise. I'd feel sorry for her, but she's gotten millions from it. The affair was not an impeachable offense. The lie was what hung him and cost the taxpayers needless time, energy, and money - at the end of his presidency. Some will feel it was worth it, others will feel differently. The lie UNDER OATH was impeachable. The original act was morally wrong and just plain stupid. If he'd admitted to it, the issue would have been dropped fairly quickly in my opinion - after all where's the news. Clinton has a little egg on his face, lots of men say "good for him - a little action on the side and Hilary forgives him again. End of story. That being understood, what are we going to do with the current bunch of liars? You can't have it both ways. And I didn't ask for it both ways. I think Bush and his advisors may have screwed up going to Iraq when they did. (I don't have a firmer opinion there, I've had my own woes to deal with and haven't paid as much attention as I normally would.) There seem to be some that think he screwed up going to Afghanistan after 9-11. I think every CEO that cheats/lies/otherwise behaves unethically toward employee and or the shareholders should at the least lose his job and pension and prosecuted if at all possible. Lawyers fees will eat a hole in those ill gotten gains pretty quickly. Cheryl |
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"Cheryl Isaak" wrote in message ... On 6/22/04 4:32 PM, in article , "Lucille" wrote: "Cheryl Isaak" wrote in message ... I didn't mind the lies about sex. I really minded him taking advantage of a young girl and his abuse of power. If the president or CEO of major corporation talked an intern in to the same act(s), said officer would have been fired, lost his pension and the respect of most people. Cheryl He definitely did the wrong thing, and he did take advantage of a young woman, and he definitely did the wrong thing in lying about it, but does anyone but me remember that before she went to Washington to work as an intern she told her boyfriend in California that she was going to see if she could hook the President into a blow job and put another notch in her belt? Lucille I never heard that part, but that is SO sad. Where's the boyfriend now? Cheryl He's probably back in CA thanking whoever he may worship that he didn't stay involved with that foolish young woman. That's why I'm not sure she was truly taken advantage of. Bill was sure as hell stupid for allowing it to happen, but she wasn't any innocent young shrinking violet and I really don't feel terribly sorry for her. In my day women of 25 were raising kids of their own and running homes. I'm not saying that was the best thing, and I will readily admit if I had it to do over I probably would prefer today's lifestyles where women wait to have families and establish good careers first, but that still doesn't make a 25 year old a kid. At that age a girl really should be able to judge what's right and wrong and/or what's really dumb. Lucille |
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In my history book, we had the history; we had to make up the lists ourselves LOLOL kathy Well........ As I recall our history books didn't exactly mention every president in the text. Think, maybe, it even jumped from Andrew Jackson to Lincoln! ROFL Caryn Blue Wizard Designs http://hometown.aol.com/crzy4xst/index.html Updated: 7/7/03 -- now available Dragon of the Stars View WIPs at: http://community.webshots.com/user/carynlws (Caryn's UFO's) |
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On 6/22/04 4:50 PM, in article ,
"Lucille" wrote: "Cheryl Isaak" wrote in message ... On 6/22/04 4:32 PM, in article , "Lucille" wrote: "Cheryl Isaak" wrote in message ... I didn't mind the lies about sex. I really minded him taking advantage of a young girl and his abuse of power. If the president or CEO of major corporation talked an intern in to the same act(s), said officer would have been fired, lost his pension and the respect of most people. Cheryl He definitely did the wrong thing, and he did take advantage of a young woman, and he definitely did the wrong thing in lying about it, but does anyone but me remember that before she went to Washington to work as an intern she told her boyfriend in California that she was going to see if she could hook the President into a blow job and put another notch in her belt? Lucille I never heard that part, but that is SO sad. Where's the boyfriend now? Cheryl He's probably back in CA thanking whoever he may worship that he didn't stay involved with that foolish young woman. That's why I'm not sure she was truly taken advantage of. Bill was sure as hell stupid for allowing it to happen, but she wasn't any innocent young shrinking violet and I really don't feel terribly sorry for her. In my day women of 25 were raising kids of their own and running homes. I'm not saying that was the best thing, and I will readily admit if I had it to do over I probably would prefer today's lifestyles where women wait to have families and establish good careers first, but that still doesn't make a 25 year old a kid. At that age a girl really should be able to judge what's right and wrong and/or what's really dumb. Lucille At 25, especially now, most people are still pretty young and foolish and capable of doing things they really regret. And their brain is still maturing physically as well as emotionally (unless you're in to biopsychology - then it's the same thing). But after yours and other comments (notch on her belt, etc), I feel less sorry for her. Interesting side note - in doing some estate planning, we found that some "experts" are once again advising having trusts that end at the 25th birthday instead of the 18th or 21st. Cheryl |
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