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Advice needed for finishing quilt
Hi:
My soon to be ex-husband was by yesterday and asked when I was going to finish the quilt I had started to make for him. Since I do want to finish it and give it to him, I decided that maybe this will get me out of my funk and quilting again. But, I'm at a loss as to how to finish it. I didn't like the way the pattern finished the quilt and I seem to have misplaced the pattern anyway, so I'm wondering where to go from here. Here are some pictures: http://mardiweb.com/quilts/hawaii.jpg (the blocks) http://mardiweb.com/quilts/hawaii1.jpg (the blocks with interspersed fabric) http://mardiweb.com/quilts/hawaii3.jpg (a closeup of one block) Anyway, my first thought was to take the miniature hawaiian fabric I used for the shirts and intersperse them every other block. My second thought was to use one of them as sashing between the blocks. Any other ideas? I have lots of the miniature hawaiian fabric left so using it as blocks is not a problem. And, as far as finishing it is concerned, do you think I should make it square or let it be hung on point? Any ideas will be greatly appreciated. Mardi Real e-mail address spelled out to prevent spam. mardi at mardiweb dot com. ____________________ My Quilting page: http://www.mardiweb.com/quilts/MardiQuilts.html Paint Shop Pro tutorials: http://www.mardiweb.com/web Low-Fat Lifestyle Forum: http://www.mardiweb.com/lowfat |
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Mardi, I applaud you for being a bigger and better person than I am. I
couldn't/wouldn't do it for him. Period. Leslie (who had a very generous and amicable divorce and feels that way any way) |
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Those blocks are so precious, they are just delightful. But I'm going over
and stand by Leslie. Ex-husbands would be a long way down on my list of people to make quilts for. Polly "Leslie in Missouri" wrote in message ... Mardi, I applaud you for being a bigger and better person than I am. I couldn't/wouldn't do it for him. Period. Leslie (who had a very generous and amicable divorce and feels that way any way) |
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Mardi,
Gotta say that I'm with Leslie and Polly on this...I just don't get it. There are lots of people in this world to make quilts for, why an ex-husband? Martha "Polly Esther" wrote in message ink.net... Those blocks are so precious, they are just delightful. But I'm going over and stand by Leslie. Ex-husbands would be a long way down on my list of people to make quilts for. Polly "Leslie in Missouri" wrote in message ... Mardi, I applaud you for being a bigger and better person than I am. I couldn't/wouldn't do it for him. Period. Leslie (who had a very generous and amicable divorce and feels that way any way) |
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she did explain in the past that this was not a bitter separation,
guys... I guess not everybody ends up hating each other when they stop living together, some people might just decide it is not a good idea to be together any more for X reason. If she feels like finishing the quilt for him, let's not question her! Martha in IN wrote: Mardi, Gotta say that I'm with Leslie and Polly on this...I just don't get it. There are lots of people in this world to make quilts for, why an ex-husband? -- Dr. Quilter Ambassador of Extraordinary Aliens http://community.webshots.com/user/mvignali (take the dog out before replying) |
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I agree with Marissa. Not everyone has bad divorces.
Sometimes making a quilt for someone you are having a rough time with is theraputic. I made DD#1 a quilt when she was in middle school. It quite possibly saved her life - you can't kill someone if you are making a quilt for them. grin I made DH a quilt during a rocky point in our lives - it helped me remember the good times and made me more willing to get through the rough spots. -- Teresa in Colorado http://home.comcast.net/~treesaquilts The Presser Foot Sewing Machine Sales, Service, Supplies, and More www.thepresserfoot.com -- "Dr. Quilter" wrote in message ... she did explain in the past that this was not a bitter separation, guys... I guess not everybody ends up hating each other when they stop living together, some people might just decide it is not a good idea to be together any more for X reason. If she feels like finishing the quilt for him, let's not question her! Martha in IN wrote: Mardi, Gotta say that I'm with Leslie and Polly on this...I just don't get it. There are lots of people in this world to make quilts for, why an ex-husband? -- Dr. Quilter Ambassador of Extraordinary Aliens http://community.webshots.com/user/mvignali (take the dog out before replying) |
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So, I really do want to finish this quilt and give it to him. It's
kind of my "going away" gift to him. I gave him up emotionally a year ago so it's not a painful thing to do. I applaud you, Mardi. Personally, I think I'd rather stick needles in my eyes, but it seems like you're doing what you need to do for "closure." Bravo! Kathy (been there...done that) |
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Mardi - I looked at the full size picture that you can click on and found
that the white fabric in the background is delightful! If you don't mind a mostly white quilt, it would be very pretty to set on point with the same white fabric between the shirt blocks, keeping the emphasis on the cute shirts. Maybe a border that is made of long thin strips sewn together and then rotary cut and resewn so it looks like you have spent years sewing together 2"strips would look good out of all your shirt materials. Or if you don't like the 'white' look, you could use some kind of fabric that reminded you of the color of the ocean, which always seems to go with Hawaiin shirts to me. Or you could take a group just like you show of 16 shirt blocks, and make them a unit, with sashing around that set, and make several sets (I can't tell the size of these blocks, if they are too big it couldn't be 16 in each set, maybe just 4). I also thought the squaring up each block by sewing a triangle on each side by using the shirt fabric would make a nice secondary pattern. Well, you'll have lots of ideas to think over and try out. I'm sure it will turn out wonderful, whichever way you go with it, because you already have such cute blocks to start with. -- email: change the word cozy to cozyhomelife and change the word netscape to net Mardi wrote in message ... On Sun, 15 Feb 2004 16:20:28 -0600 (CST), (Leslie in Missouri) wrote: Mardi, I applaud you for being a bigger and better person than I am. I couldn't/wouldn't do it for him. Period. Leslie (who had a very generous and amicable divorce and feels that way any way) I think this whole thing needs a little explanation as to why I am completing the quilt for him. He is really a very good guy. I left him, he didn't leave me. He's the kind of person who can't deal with anything emotional. So, he stuffs all his feelings in his "closet". I stuck with him for 15 years thinking that I would be able to help him learn how to share his thoughts and feelings and how to love himself. I failed, and I finally decided that if I wanted to have a "rest of the story" I needed to do it now. I lived with him for over a year pretty much as a roommate. He was fine with the arrangement, but I wanted so much more. So I gave him an ultimatum, either he got some therapy to learn how to deal with his emotions or I would leave and make a new life for myself. He chose to not get therapy. He doesn't want to deal with all the painful things he would have to deal with to learn to love himself. So, I really do want to finish this quilt and give it to him. It's kind of my "going away" gift to him. I gave him up emotionally a year ago so it's not a painful thing to do. Mardi Real e-mail address spelled out to prevent spam. mardi at mardiweb dot com. ____________________ My Quilting page: http://www.mardiweb.com/quilts/MardiQuilts.html Paint Shop Pro tutorials: http://www.mardiweb.com/web Low-Fat Lifestyle Forum: http://www.mardiweb.com/lowfat |
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Ooh!
Having written my first thoughts already, I have to jump in here and say that I really like Cozy's idea of squaring up each shirt block, rather than what I said - squaring up the whole thing later. .. In article , cozy writes Mardi - I looked at the full size picture that you can click on and found that the white fabric in the background is delightful! If you don't mind a mostly white quilt, it would be very pretty to set on point with the same white fabric between the shirt blocks, keeping the emphasis on the cute shirts. Maybe a border that is made of long thin strips sewn together and then rotary cut and resewn so it looks like you have spent years sewing together 2"strips would look good out of all your shirt materials. Or if you don't like the 'white' look, you could use some kind of fabric that reminded you of the color of the ocean, which always seems to go with Hawaiin shirts to me. Or you could take a group just like you show of 16 shirt blocks, and make them a unit, with sashing around that set, and make several sets (I can't tell the size of these blocks, if they are too big it couldn't be 16 in each set, maybe just 4). I also thought the squaring up each block by sewing a triangle on each side by using the shirt fabric would make a nice secondary pattern. Well, you'll have lots of ideas to think over and try out. I'm sure it will turn out wonderful, whichever way you go with it, because you already have such cute blocks to start with. -- email: change the word cozy to cozyhomelife and change the word netscape to net -- Best Regards pat on the hill |
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