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Oddly enough, I know several people who can't read or do basic math who
happen to be outstanding citizens. They are hard-working people who live to help others and do not believe any task is beneath their dignity. But yes, they are easily conned so they do need to have someone protect their interests. I believe that is more in line with what you are trying to get across. Cheryl Isaak wrote: I was speaking philosophically to some degree - I really don't know how to "enforce" it. I deeply and sincerely believe that if one CAN NOT read or do basic math (add, subtract), one can not be a good citizen or a responsible one. By third grade (age 8-10), those basic skills need to be in place to give each child a fighting chance. I have not advocated not giving those with disabilities an education. -- Brenda |
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K wrote:
Heh. I am one. It depends on your definition of normal. But there are an awful lot of people at the ends of the bell curve. And a whole lot more in between. :-) Which is what I'm saying. Actually, she said: "And these skills ought to be in place, ready to be built upon, by the end of third grade." I stand corrected. She is right -- the *basic* skills she's talking about should be in place at a very early age, because if they aren't, the child is always playing catch up. You can tell a child 10,000 times not to slam a door, and carry with that some sort of responsibility/punishment. Some will stop at a young age, some won't stop til after they own their own home and it dawns on them *why*, and others will continue to slam the door until the day they die. But yes, the values of critical thinking, right/wrong, should be instilled from infancy. Then again, we move into a discussion about what exactly you mean by these terms. So, for this conversation I will assume you mean things like "don't steal or cheat", the consequences of lying (tough because everybody lies), etc. I think everyone can agree on those at least intellectually. How you teach a child not to be "conned" is another matter entirely and I would offer often has to do with late brain development, which has to do with "judgment". I would also think that heavy teen drinking or other drug use could affect whether or not this late brain development ever occurs. And not everyone is born with equal IQ or abilities. Thus, we're back to square one. :-) Dianne -- "The Journal of Needlework" - The E-zine for All Needleworkers http://journal.heritageshoppe.com |
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"Dianne Lewandowski" wrote. If they were so transparent, there would be no Jim Jones, or the myriad serial "husbands" or serial "wives". These are just examples. Many people are swept up. Not always because of greed. Not always because they don't have brains. It is easy enough to delete a "too good to be true" email (my ISP even quarantines them for me), or be suspicious of an out of the blue "you have won a cruise" telemarketing call--but some con artists devote considerable time and effort to cultivating their victims. People are not always greedy--sometimes they are lonely, or feeling low (the husband I mentioned was having a hard time adjusting to being "out of it" in retirement after an active business career, and so was vulnerable to a pitch which flattered his business acumen and experience)and these people exploit their vulnerabilities. Where I live, both a financial advisor and a contractor took considerable time to work themselves into evangelistic churches, and then scammed members who wanted to deal with "good Christian" businesses with very plausible looking deals that took months to be revealed for the crooked schemes they were. By thinking these people must be stupid, sometimes we are just looking for the magic talisman that says it won't happen to me. Dawne |
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Brenda -
Better said. Thank you I have this pet peeve about responsible citizenship - have had from about 7th grade. My history teacher that year was a man whose family came out East Germany and had found relatives living in the States. While I am sure it mostly fell on deaf ears, he spent a lot of time talking about the duties of citizenship, mostly about voting, especially about informed voting, about paying a fair tax, about tyranny. And just to play devil's advocate a bit - is it possible to be a good citizen with out being a responsible one? How about the other - responsible without being a good citizen? I am wrestling with this a bit due to a conversation I've had recently with some one I know via Scouts. Cheryl On 1/11/05 4:16 PM, in article , "Brenda" wrote: Oddly enough, I know several people who can't read or do basic math who happen to be outstanding citizens. They are hard-working people who live to help others and do not believe any task is beneath their dignity. But yes, they are easily conned so they do need to have someone protect their interests. I believe that is more in line with what you are trying to get across. Cheryl Isaak wrote: I was speaking philosophically to some degree - I really don't know how to "enforce" it. I deeply and sincerely believe that if one CAN NOT read or do basic math (add, subtract), one can not be a good citizen or a responsible one. By third grade (age 8-10), those basic skills need to be in place to give each child a fighting chance. I have not advocated not giving those with disabilities an education. -- Brenda |
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Cheryl Isaak wrote:
No - what I keep saying - I don't understand it - why are some many apparently intelligent people taken in. Because some con artists are exceptionally adept at deception. For an excellent example: Some of the televangalists who have bilked many poor and "comfortable" and live the life of luxury before they are caught. Serial husbands and black widows who pray on the unsuspecting. I believe it was Dawne who posted on this subject. We are all created by the same gift of life. We are all truly equally gifted. No, we're not. That's where we disagree. Do I believe all people have "something special?" Of course. But equally gifted? No. I have better than average skills in some areas. Average skills in other areas. Ahh but that I would be as equally gifted as Lang Lang! None of my gifts even comes close! You only see the frailness - I see the possibility of all men and women. Where you found that in my conversation is a mystery. Was it not your argument that you cannot understand how people can be conned? I merely pointed out we're all not created equal - starting with IQ. Some humans simply don't have the capacity to spot a scam for any number of reasons which do not necessarily have to do with greed. I am making allowances for people's frailties - while you are demanding and insisting that no self-respecting adult should fall for a scam. That's been the argument between us from the moment we each posted to this topic. Dianne -- "The Journal of Needlework" - The E-zine for All Needleworkers http://journal.heritageshoppe.com |
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Cheryl Isaak wrote:
Brenda - Better said. Thank you So, you are conceding that some people are born with less ability and are less gifted? If so, how much less ability or giftedness are you willing to accept? My history teacher that year was a man whose family came out East Germany and had found relatives living in the States. While I am sure it mostly fell on deaf ears, he spent a lot of time talking about the duties of citizenship, mostly about voting, especially about informed voting, about paying a fair tax, about tyranny. I grew up with very strong values instilled about citizenship and adulthood. Taking responsibility for one's mistakes. Taking responsibility as a citizen (I have volunteered often in civic affairs and always vote and stay as informed as possible). Lying in our household was a heinous crime. My parents ran a tight ship, and their parents held the same values. But not everyone is born with the capacity. Nor are they born into a family that instills these values. Nor are they in school systems which also promote them. One has only to read here, recently, the posts on cheating in the classroom to know that somewhere we are failing as a society. Do I think there ever was a time when 99% of the citizens took responsibility and all these other related values to heart? No. Do I think the percentages are lower now than 50 or 60 years ago? Yes. And just to play devil's advocate a bit - is it possible to be a good citizen with out being a responsible one? How about the other - responsible without being a good citizen? Define good citizen. Define "responsible". The reason I'm asking those questions? Because (as an example), if you asked a question of 50 parents whether they encourage cheating or lying, they will all raise their hands and say, "Absolutely not!" But if their children are caught in school cheating or lying, many of those same parents will defend their children with one excuse after another. So, the definition depends upon when and how you're asking the question, and also who it is affecting. :-) Dianne -- "The Journal of Needlework" - The E-zine for All Needleworkers http://journal.heritageshoppe.com |
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Cheryl Isaak wrote:
Ok - you're right - everyone is handicapped. Don't put words in my mouth. I never said everyone is handicapped. That's a pretty strong word. I said we're not all created equal, and that some have lesser (or more) abilities than others. Dianne -- "The Journal of Needlework" - The E-zine for All Needleworkers http://journal.heritageshoppe.com |
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