Cryn wrote:

The way I read that question was that if your children are your priority,
all your life decisions will incorporate that. Whether or not you have to
work, you still do your best by them. The opposite end of the scale would
be the parent pursuing personal happiness as a priority and the children
fitting in (or not).

Thanks for the link, Dianne. I feel better about not being 'successful'
when I am in company with Nelson Mandela and Ghandi!!!

Boy, that's at least four times this morning I've read posts that have
said what I wanted to say and failed miserably. Thank you!! That's how
*I* read that question. It certainly raised a LOT of emotional
reaction. And it did for me when I first read the darn question. I had
to think long and hard before I answered it.

Dianne